When People Support an Abuser, Shake Their Dust Off Your Feet by Charlene D. Quint
Much like the Pharisees who rejected the goodness of Jesus no matter how many miracles He did and no matter how righteous He was, these minions of abusers will reject and ostracize the victim of abuse while gleefully hobnobbing with your abusive ex-husband. The Bible does not tell us to grovel and beg and try to convince them how righteous we are so that we will be accepted by them. Quite the contrary. We are told to shake their dust off our feet, move on, and consider ourselves blessed.